Lifeguards

Something else I had learned was the word, queer. I had absolutely no idea what it meant, and looking back I'm not sure my classmates did, either. But I absolutely knew that, whatever queer meant, no decent person would want to be one.

It was clear that one way to prove one wasn't queer, was to play sports. Well, actually, that wasn't enough; one had to be good as sports. But I hated sports, because, for whatever reason, I hated competition. I was always a work together kind of person. Not only did I hate to lose, I also hated anyone else to lose. (I had no clue there was such a thing as non-competitive sports, hiking and like white water rafting, until I was an adult. And surfing was out because we couldn't afford a surfboard, which was at least $100, worth about $813 dollars today.)

So, when the other Paul in my class, Paul Bateman, announced he had joined the Lifeguard Corps for a summer job, I thought, Wow, that's the most un-queer job I could image. Plus, get paid to swim? Count me in! And so that's how I became a lifeguard.

The head of the Lifeguard Corps was a guy named Bill Fulton. His daughter, Ginny, also went to St. Joseph Academy, a year or two below me. His house had a pool, and that's where he trained the lifeguard wannabes. Mr. Fulton was the director of the St. Johns County lifeguard corps from 1966 to 1970. He was responsible for training and supervising the lifeguards, as well as organizing events and competitions. He was also a former lifeguard himself, and had a passion for the ocean and the beach. He was well-respected and admired by his colleagues and students, and was known for his dedication and professionalism.

In his pool, Mr. Fulton showed us how to actually rescue people; he taught us the sidestroke, which is basically the only way you can swim when one arm is wrapped around someone who can't. He even taught us to dive deep if a panicky victim wraps their arms around our necks. (They immediately let go.)

My best friend, Timmy Miller, joined too!

We didn't have walkie talkies (and of course this was decades before cellphones). We just sat on an open tower; if the flag was upright it meant all was well; but if we had to rescue someone, we threw the flag on the ground. A mile or two away, there was a lifeguard shack on the St. Augustine Beach pier where someone was supposed to check all the towers with binoculars; if one was missing a flag, he would radio the lifeguard truck and send it to check it out.

In 1967 all the lifeguards were boys; and all the boys I saw at Mr. Fulton's pool were white. I didn't know it for a long time, but there were actually three black lifeguards. They were sent to the (then-segregated Butler Beach) to guard it. The only reason I learned this was the day Mr. Fulton pulled me aside.

I've got a problem, he said. Two of the guys who usually lifeguard at Butler Beach are on vacation, and the other guy called in sick.

My first thought was, I never heard of Butler Beach. My second thought was, They have three guys dedicated to just one beach? The rest of us were sent to various beaches at random. I don't know where it is, I told him, But sure, I'll go if you need.

So I got dropped off at Butler Beach. When people started to arrive, I couldn't help but notice they were all Black people (or, as I was told was polite in 1967, Negroes). I of course didn't care, except I wondered why they all just went to one beach—because, now that I thought about it, I had never noticed any black people at the other beaches I guarded, except once, at Vilano Beach.

I liked Vilano Beach, because there was usually no one there! That's right; I liked being a lifeguard but I hated having to actually rescue anyone because I found being fussed over afterwards to be devastatingly embarassing. If no one was swimming, no one would need rescuing and I could enjoy the view and the sun and water without distracting actual swimmers.

So this one day, I was at Vilano Beach and a lady came with her two toddlers. She walked up to me and asked, Is it all right if we swim here?

Well, of course! I replied, having no idea why she asked.

Now, I know. It was a Black family, and the beaches had been officially de-segregated just three years before (which no one had told me). At the time, I was just puzzled why she felt she had to ask. I mean, whoever heard of a closed beach? Especially one with a lifeguard present.

Well, I just love little kids. And there was no one else there. So I climbed off the tower and played in the sand with the two little girls. We had fun, and after a bit the older girl asked, Are you my cousin?

I just laughed, but before I could explain I was the lifeguard, her mom hurriedly explained, She just said that because you're so nice.

Well, they're both just adorable! I assured their mom. But I did pick up that she was afraid I'd be insulted for some reason, and I was sorry that she would think that.

So, when I found myself at Butler Beach, it was like the next clue in the mystery. I knew what segregation and integration were; any kid in St. Augustine in 1967 did. It just never occurred to me it would have anything to do with swimming at a beach. But, obviously, it somehow did.

So it turned out I liked guarding Butler Beach as well, because, even though it was crowded, everyone was respectful of the ocean. Except for surfers, no one came close to trying to go too far out to where it might be dangerous. And everyone was pleasant to me.

So, when I told Mr. Fulton, at the end of the day, that anytime he needed someone at Butler Beach, to give me a call. And he got this odd expression of relief, as if I'd just gotten him out of trouble somehow. In the next few years, I was to come to recognize this as the expression a white person who isn't a racist asshole wears when they discover another white person who also isn't a racist asshole, and together they can solve a problem racist assholes have created and wish to retain.

My other favorite was Crescent Beach, also because it usually didn't have a lot of people. (It was mainly a surfing beach, and although of course I'd have rescued a surfer who needed it, that never happened while I was guarding. Surfers are good swimmers.)

There were a bunch of summer rentals along Crescent Beach, and one day a man came up to me in my tower. Excuse me, he said, in a strong New Jersey accent. I've noticed that sometimes the water is way, way out there, and sometimes it's way up here, like now. Do you have any idea what causes that?

I was a sophomore in high school. Not only that, but I paid attention in science class as I assumed everyone did. So I imagined that the guy was just joking; so I joked back, replying, Yes, isn't it amazing? The Coast Guard has installed giant paddles offshore, and twice a day they push the ocean water onto the beach to clean off the trash.

I expected him to laugh. Insead, his jaw dropped; he muttered, Amazing! and then ran to his friend to tell him, Guess how I just learned they're spending our tax dollars!

So a couple weeks later, when a woman came and asked the very same question, I was taking no chances. That's the tides, ma'am, I answered; and when she still looked blank, I added, The moon pulls the water towards it as the Earth spins.*

She stared at me with rapidly growing digust. I don't believe in Astrology, she said. And if you don't want to spend eternity in Hell, you shouldn't either. She then went back to her condo and returned with a copy of the Bible, page already turned to Deuteronomy 18:9-14.

After that, when anyone asked, I would just shrug, throw up my hands, and say, Beats me.

In later years I discovered that more than half the people you meet at random don't know how to swim. I just never understood that. A Gallup poll conducted in 1998 found that 62% of Americans are afraid of deep water and 46% are afraid of water over their heads. The poll also found that 19% of Americans cannot swim at all, and 37% can swim only a little.

That's not me. I may not be good at catching a football or dunking a basketball or knocking a tennis ball somewhere in my own court, but by golly I can swim so well I once dozed off while in the water (and continued to float).

So, even though my job was lifeguarding, even when I wasn't working (there were more lifeguards than towers so we got days off), I was at the beach. Any excuse would do. For example, my grandmother wanted my wheelchair-bound grandfather to spend time breathing ocean air. So I volunteered. (It was also a chance to drive.)

No, I couldn't actually go swimming while babysitting Grampa. But as long as I stayed near the car, I could do whatever.

Of my two sisters, Louise was the one who also enjoyed water; so often it was she and I together. (Mary Joan preferred to go on road trips with me.)

Every time we saw, seagulls, Grampa would be reminded of a limerick he'd learned, and that he repeated so many times it's now a part of me.

A wonderful bird is the pelican;
His bill will hold more than his belican.
He can take in his beak
Enough food for a week,
But I’m damned if I see how the helican! Dixon Lanier Merritt

Yes, I know seagulls and pelicans are very different animals. But we often are triggered to think of one thing by something else.

Although it was just a summer job (that I held for several summers), I'm a lifeguard! has become a treasured part of my identity. I still swim (as I write this, I can barely walk but by golly I can swim!) every chance I get. And although its been many decades since I actually had to save anybody, I note that, no matter what I'm doing or what's going on, when I'm near people playing in water, part of my brain is always listening for the sounds of someone in trouble.

People in this universe can't fly or shoot heat beams from their eyes (as opposed to folks living in the DC or Marvel universes). But we have heroes nonetheless. Some of them are lifeguards. And I was one of them.